Four Type of Turn On

If you’ve been wondering how to explain to your partner what turns you on, I feel you.

I used to be the woman who froze when a partner asked me what I wanted.

I’m here to help.

Turn on is about more than just touching the right place at the right time.

Our largest sex organ is our brain.

AND, we’re more likely to become aroused when we are in a space of safety and our physical bodies are relaxed.

Knowing these two main points of data, I want you to look through the four categories of turn-on below and start to consider which of these you might be missing in your sex life right now.

HERE THEY ARE: THE FOUR MAIN CATEGORIES OF TURN-ON

You could call these, “intimacy accelerators.”

1: emotional / love turn ons

  • commitment

  • closeness

  • protection

  • security

  • support

2: explicit / erotic turn ons

  • watching or hearing about sex

  • feeling desired

  • seeing partner turned on

3: embodied / status turn ons

  • someone looking good

  • confidence

  • intelligence

  • class

4: romantic / intimate turn ons

  • dancing closely

  • massage

  • laughing together

  • baths

  • gentle touch

It can be a mix of these, AND turn on always depends on how YOU feel internally, your stress levels, and the environment.

Context is key.

Comment below which of these things turn YOU on the most!

Hannah Deindorfer